But we have really bad examples of love relationships in TV and movies and in our families. I hear people say things that I imagine they got from watching a show, where the writers, for dramatic purposes I guess, have the characters say things in the name of love that have nothing to do with it, or often are the opposite, people trying to be something they obviously aren’t. I don’t think my parents or grandparents shared much love with each other, maybe they had their moments, but they weren’t often. My uncle once told me, after my aunt died and he was looking for a new wife to take her place, it was like casting for a movie, that it’s betrayal if a person turns out to not be what they appeared to be on the first date. A lot of people think that way. To figure out love, you have to take a step back from culture and families and just be yourself and see who likes you. You just found love. ❤️#